Love Life, Love Me – Major Update

self help linky

So back in November I started my new Love Life, Love Me segment and then real life took some turns and I did not get to continue. My need for self-help is still majorly needed, maybe more so then ever but I am also realist and real life has so much happening that obtaining 5 goals each week is just not possible. It’s a shame but I don’t want to over pressure myself or get myself down when I can’t complete them.

So I have decided that once a month I shall complete a Love Life, Love Me post and shall have 10 obtainable goals, this way I give myself time to complete them, I still want people to link up with self-help posts, I think it will be a great way to inspire and keep each other going, in between I shall be sharing posts linked to my 10 obtainable goals, reviews that come up, recipes etc but my updates shall be once a month on the 19th.

So my goals for this month 

1. Join Weight Watchers and attend my 1st meeting – I am so nervous about this, but I am also excited.

2. Make and Use a Face Mask – I have one already planned, my poor skin needs it so desperately

3. Put my new blog design in place – this I am so frightened of going wrong, but my blog has needed a streamline look for some time

4. Exercise at least once a week for half hour – hopefully more than this

5. Re book my eye check up and get new glasses – I am struggling to see and I have not had a new design of glasses for way too long

6. Go on a day date with my Husband – we so need some time together

7. Read at least one of the 2 books I should have read for my Year Of Change Book Club

8. Publish a blog post a day for 7 days – I need to catch up and blog posts always make me feel better about myself inside

9. Paint my nails at least once a week – I have used my new Sensationail kit and love it, a new colour arrives this week

10. Sell some of my shoes that I just no longer wear

Such a mixture, but for me it is about inside and outside and getting life back on track. Looking good, feeling de-cluttered and spending some time relaxing. I can’t thank 2 friends enough for helping me through this past month, Hannah and Charlotte you are both so awesome.

Obviously getting myself looking good is massive for me, it makes me feel better on the inside, my hair  these past 2 years has been a big change in my life with shaving my hair all off for charity 2 years ago now, I have enjoyed having it short and funky colours, but due to that my hair has taken a beating, so I feel very fortunate to have been sent an all natural Tints of Nature package of hair dye and shampoos to sort it out, it went on just under 2 weeks ago now and I am impressed.

Come back Friday for a full review of how well it has worked and whether 2 weeks on it is still as good.

Thanks for taking the time to come by and let’s see if together we can start Loving Life and Loving Ourselves, please do link up any post from this month that is helping you to become a new improved life.

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Kara Janelle, Plus Size Blogging Mama. Vintage Lover, Interiors Obsessed, Chair Crazed, Collector of Much remembering to Smile as it is the 2nd best thing you can do with your mouth.

  • MrsShilts

    I need to take control of being me again. Life has been so busy the last 4 months, I’ve neglected myself a bit. My goals this month are to get my eyebrows threaded and my hair cut and coloured. I need a wardrobe overhaul, I’m just not comfortable in anything I wear at the moment and a lot of it is because of my weight. Hope you have a productive month and i’ll be checking back to see your hair update xx

  • Lauren_W

    This is a great idea Kara. Your goals are all realistic and achievable.
    In terms of YOC let me suggest the February book, it’s a much easier read than Januarys. Remember, you don’t have to read it all xx
    Good luck lovely xx

  • Kara, you are amazing. You have nothing to thank me for, it’s all you and I am super proud of you. I LOVE this post. xxxxx

  • mummydaddyme

    Good luck with all your goals this month Kara, I am sure that you can do them. xx