Positivity and Friendship

Trying to find a shining light through the dark clouds has been hard these past few months. But friendship and positivity is what will see me through.

I reminded myself of a post I wrote back at the end of 2014, talking of the wise words a great friend gave me, why am I struggling to regain control, why can I not achieve what I promised myself I would ?

I am admitting defeat, life needs to change and it is time I really do take control.

I have seen my doctor, my health issues have become very bad and he agreed so many referrals are in place, I have spoken to my rock (Ashley) time after time and he knows I am in a dark place and I know with his help and some close friends I will come out of it.

I wasn’t sure of that months ago, but now I am, having Ashley and some truly amazing, genuine friends in my life for the first time I think ever I will get there.


Today I am starting again, I am going to start my lists, lists are my way of getting control and I am going to tick things off. I am going to create happy memories.

I am going to see the light, I am going to be realistic and stop hoping for miracles. Small steps.

And receiving messages like this today means I know I have people to help me get there. Love you my dear friends.

Power of positivity

About Innocent Charms Chats

Kara Janelle, Plus Size Blogging Mama. Vintage Lover, Interiors Obsessed, Chair Crazed, Collector of Much remembering to Smile as it is the 2nd best thing you can do with your mouth.

  • You are an amazing & inspiring woman. I am honoured to have you as a friend x

  • (Mostly) Yummy Mummy

    Small steps might not get you there today but remember that you’ll be one step closer than you were yesterday. Sending lots of strength and love x

  • Catherine Doran

    You are one of the most inspiring people I know (well, know online!) and I hope one day we will meet. But for now, know this. You are stronger than you give yourself credit for, you will get there, just take one step at a time – you don’t need to run straight away. Hugs as ever xx